吴某儿诉林某标变更抚养关系案
吴某儿诉林某标变更抚养关系案
——施暴者不宜直接抚养未成年子女
[案件基本信息]
1．裁判书字号
广东省广州市中级人民法院（2018）粤01民终22182号民事判决书
2．案由：变更抚养关系纠纷
3．当事人
原告：吴某儿
被告：林某标
[基本案情]
原、被告于2004年3月15日登记结婚，于2006年8月22日生育儿子林某涛，于2013年4月26日协议离婚。《离婚协议书》载明“……二、经双方协商，婚后育有一儿子：林某涛，由男方抚养。抚养费是男方支付日常生活开支，如果有其他大额支付（包括但不限于突发或者重大疾病、教育费、择校费、保险费、18岁以后大学费用、出国教育费用等），由双方协商……”
2018年7月26日，原告提起本案诉讼。诉讼中，本案开庭审理前，林某涛于2018年8月28日上午在被告陪同下来到法院，本院征求林某涛的意见，其表示愿意跟随父亲共同生活；开庭审理后，林某涛于2018年8月30日上午在原告的陪同下来到法院，本院再次征求其意见，其强烈表示要和母亲共同生活。2018年9月7日上午，本院根据案件审理需要，安排心理辅导师给林某涛做个体沙盘游戏治疗和评估，同时通知了原、被告双方到庭。原、被告在法庭外等待期间，忽然由言语冲突引发双方（家属）打斗，林某标一方将吴某儿一方家属打伤，当事人报110和120。伤者当日被送往医院治疗，被告林某标当日被警方带走处理。当日，林某涛向本院申请人身安全保护令，本院于当日作出（2018）粤0111民保令4号民事裁定书，裁定如下：一、禁止被申请人林某标对申请人林某涛实施家庭暴力。二、禁止被申请人林某标骚扰、跟踪、接触申请人及其相关近亲属。三、在（2018）粤0111民初9475号变更抚养权纠纷案判决生效之前，申请人林某涛暂由吴某儿携带抚养。
[案件焦点]
孩子由谁携带抚养更为适宜。
[法院裁判要旨]
对于子女的抚养问题，应从有利于子女身心健康、保障子女合法权益考虑。一方要求变更子女抚养关系，有下列情形之一的，应予支持：（1）与子女共同生活的一方因患严重疾病或因伤残无力继续抚养子女的；（2）与子女共同生活的一方不尽抚养义务或有虐待子女行为，或其与子女共同生活对子女身心健康确有不利影响的；（3）十周岁以上未成年子女，愿随另一方生活，该方又有抚养能力的；（4）有其他正当理由需要变更的。本案中，第一，林某涛愿随原告吴某儿生活，原告吴某儿亦有抚养能力。第二，本案在审理过程中，被告林某标于2018年9月7日上午对原告一方进行殴打造成原告的亲属受伤，令在场的林某涛亦感恐惧。综上所述，原告起诉要求变更抚养权合理合法，本院予以支持，认定林某涛由原告携带抚养。
宣判后，被告林某标不服，上诉至广东省广州市中级人民法院，该院于2018年12月25日判决：
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