胡杰诉单燕燕离婚纠纷案
胡杰诉单燕燕离婚纠纷案
案例索引
一审：浙江省余姚市人民法院（2010）甬余泗民初字第44号（2010年6月10日）
案情
原告：胡杰，男。
被告：单燕燕，女。
余姚市人民法院经审理查明：原告胡杰与被告单燕燕经人介绍相识建立恋爱关系。2009年10月2日，原告胡杰给付被告单燕燕188000元，被告单燕燕返还原告胡杰88000元，被告单燕燕实际收到原告胡杰给付的款项100000元。原、被告双方于2010年2月2日在慈溪市民政局办理了结婚登记手续，并计划于同年3月28日举行结婚仪式。但在结婚登记手续办理后、结婚仪式举行前的期间，原、被告因故发生矛盾，导致结婚仪式被取消。原告胡杰于2010年3月23日将被告单燕燕起诉至法院。
另查明，原告胡杰称其本人及部分亲属于2010年2月27日到被告处协调过彩礼一事，被告单燕燕在答辩过程中予以认可，本院对该事实予以确认；被告单燕燕称原、被告双方办理结婚登记手续前共同在杭州做生意并共同生活数月，原告胡杰未予否认，只是认为婚前同居是不受法律保护的，故法院对原、被告双方在2010年2月2日办理结婚登记手续前共同生活数月的事实予以确认。
原告胡杰起诉称：2010年2月，原、被告双方在慈溪市民政局办理结婚登记手续，双方约定同年3月28日举行婚礼仪式并承办酒席。但时间未到，被告逐渐暴露出性格粗暴的一面，双方因为家事矛盾，造成感情破裂。经多次协调未成，取消了3月28日的婚礼及酒席。被告答复离婚手续可办，但对彩礼100000元拒不返还。根据《婚姻法司法解释（二）》第十条第二款的规定，办理结婚登记后确未共同生活，被告理应返还彩礼。现请求法院判令：1.准予原、被告离婚；2.被告即时返还彩礼100000元；3.本案诉讼费由被告承担。
被告单燕燕答辩称：原、被告双方系自由恋爱，感情一直很好。原告主张离婚，但是并没有充分的理由说明双方感情已经破裂。原、被告双方从2009年4月15日开始共同生活、做生意，2009年年底，被告还到原告家中过春节。关于彩礼问题，原、被告双方已经登记结婚，依法不应当予以返还。从情理上讲，如果离婚是被告提出的，原告要求返还彩礼还说得过去。而本案由于是原告提起的，故原告要求返还彩礼于情理也不合。
审判
余姚市人民法院认为：对于离婚的问题，虽然原告未能提供充分的证据，证明双方存在准予离婚的法定事由，但是双方刚办理结婚登记不久，且结婚仪式并未举行。除非双方均一致同意不举行结婚仪式，结婚仪式从我国的传统和现实看，还是具有十分重要的意义。因此，一方坚持不再举行结婚仪式，并坚决要求离婚，可以认为夫妻感情确已破裂，应当准予原、被告离婚。对于彩礼的返还问题，可以结合案件的具体事实，综合考虑法理、情理、道理等因素，酌定被告适当返还。据此判决：一、准予原告胡杰与被告单燕燕离婚。二、被告单燕燕返还原告胡杰彩礼60000元。
一审宣判后，本案在法定期限内没有上诉，判决已发生法律效力。
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